What is sexual harassment?

Sexual harassment can be all sorts of things. It is a type of harassment involving unwelcome or inappropriate sexual action or words towards a person

Sexual harassment can affect both men and women. It takes many forms.

Examples of sexual harassment

1. Flirting or making sexual remarks about someone's body, clothing or appearance

2. Repeated compliments on someone's appearance

3. Rubbing up against someone on the dance floor, or anywhere

4. Calling pet names such as sweetie, baby to strangers or people who are not an intimate relationship or friendship

5. Asking questions about someone's sex life

6. Telling sexually offensive jokes

7. Sending sexual content e.g. pornographic or sexual images to others

8. Sexual assault or rape

9. Touching someone against their will, for example touching their butt, breasts, hugging them, or unwanted touching on any part of the body

10. Whistling or cat-calling

11. Making sexually suggestive sounds or gestures such as sucking noises, winks

12. Threats or bribes for unwanted sexual activity

13. Repeatedly asking a person out for dates, or to have sex

14. Name-calling, such as bitch, whore, or slut

15. Staring in an offensive way (staring at a woman’s breasts, or a man’s buttocks)

16. Stalking a person

Tips to avoid harassment

1. Be clear about what you want and what you don’t want.

2. Be careful with recordings with a webcam. The video can be passed on to other people.

3. Don’t let someone put you under pressure. Don’t think you’re strange if you say no. It’s your body and your choice!

4. Stop a friendship or relationship if the other person doesn’t respect you.

5. Don’t say ‘maybe’ if you mean ‘no’.

If the worst happens

If the worst happens and someone forces you to have sex, don’t keep it to yourself. Tell someone and talk about it. It’s a terrible experience to be sexually assaulted or raped. It's natural to feel absolutely devastated.

Talk about it. Choose someone you trust: your mother, your best friend, your sister, your father, someone at school, or someone via internet if you prefer. Tell them what has happened. Ask for support so you feel stronger again.

And think about whether you want to report what has happened to the police – realistically, this may depend on where you live.

Guilt and shame

Victims often feel guilty – they think it’s their own fault. Which it isn’t! No one has the right to force another person to have sex.

Victims also feel ashamed or embarrassed. You think everyone can tell what’s happened to you. Anyone who’s been forced to have sex against their will feel like this. It’s normal. You’re not overreacting.

You might also feel repulsed by people, or sex, or your own body. If you feel deeply unhappy, depressed, or afraid, you should seek help.....Read More  

 

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